INtention – Relationships
What are you intentions?
We all want the fairytale. We want them to change and be something different. However always blaming others doesn’t get us to where we want to be.
What does your family life look like? Does it the thought of having to see your family bring you stress. Or is it something you look forward to? Is there someone you want to reconnect with or cut ties with? You’re never the only one dealing with this. Everyone has their own baggage that they are trying to avoid and we generally hurt the ones who are the closest. How does one even begin the process of healing those broken bonds we want back? I’ll share my story so you don’t feel alone.
What about your social life, do you have one? Do you have a good group of friends you can hang out with or call in a pinch? Whether you have one good friend or none, we all want someone near us when shit hits the fan. Do you have that person in your life? If you do, call them right now and throw them some love, tell them how lucky you feel having them in your life. Seriously go and do it. I’ll share my story about the ebbs and flows of my social life. How it went from some to many, to a few to none and then learning how to like my own company and leave the bottle alone.
How is your romantic relationship, really it’s none of my business but here we are? Does your partner’s face light up when you walk in the room? Do you have a knot in your stomach when they come near? This one fires you up either way, in a good way – well we all know how that might go. A good evening turns into an electric night and a sweet morning. But for some of us, it can turn down right mean and ugly. I personally have experienced both. Yes, I’ll share some of my stories here and don’t worry I’ll be sure to change the name to protect the – innocent? Somehow that words doesn’t really work here but I’ll use it anyways.
Definitions
Family are those who have had a great impact on your life and consider them family. You can decide who you welcome in and is a part of your inner circle.
Social is everyone else outside of your immediate family tree. How do you interact with these people?
Partner is the person with who you share your life with. The person whom you trust the most.